Words for calling. How to morally kill a person while remaining calm

For a negative attitude towards a man, each woman has her own reasons. And such sentiments are very noticeable if you are critical of women's posts on the World Wide Web. Representatives of the weaker half are especially interested in the topic of humiliation. Simply put, ladies need phrases with which you can morally humiliate a man.

What words can humiliate a man?

It is rare when a lady throws humiliating phrases at a guy just like that. This means that the limit of her patience has come. Although, as practice shows, the weak half of humanity does not have this patience.

However, the weaker sex of women can only be called conditionally. After all, men are morally less stress-resistant and it is very easy to get them out of emotional balance. Because of this, any instructive conversations with a man should take place under the sign of dissatisfaction with his shortcomings.

Often, finding them is not difficult. Few of them can simultaneously boast of the makings of a breadwinner, a master and a great friend who knows how to empathize. Often a man is enough for only one role or none at all. But criticism can do its job. She definitely loses her self-esteem. So it will not be difficult to humiliate such a vulnerable person.

Self-esteem. Puzzling over words for humiliation, it is worth understanding: men carefully guard their peace. This means that most of them have a “program” in their heads, according to which all criticism is a minus for the one who expresses it.

From that, it is very difficult to shake the self-esteem of such a person. But there is a way out. It is necessary to put pressure on the most intimate - belonging to the species of males. It is important to challenge the sense of pride that he feels about this. And hints of disappointment in his masculine strength will finish off even the most stubborn. In any case, a spark of doubt will already sink into the soul.

A cruel joke with a very transparent hint of his inappropriate behavior during intimacy will be especially unpleasant. It will hook any guy.

Most men pay great attention to appearance. Although they carefully hide it. It is easy to check his true attitude. You just need to sincerely admire the figure or facial features of another.

Talent. To offend a guy, it is not necessary to point out the inability to sing. After all, this is not always among his benefactors. But there is still some talent. Therefore, it would be useful to cite a celebrity with similar abilities as an example. And also transparently hint that the latter at his age already shone on stage or among fans.

As catalysts for anger, words like “coward”, “scumbag”, “rag”, “sissy” will act on the interlocutor.

What words can be used to humiliate a guy?

Apparently, general information will be enough. After all, it's all theory. And most ladies really want to learn in practice what words to annoy their missus.

Immediately it is necessary to take into account the character and disposition of the interlocutor. Most likely, this is a person who knows what to answer in any situation. Otherwise, there would be no need to humiliate him. It is for this reason that it makes sense to view the dialogue below. Many will see their relationship in it. Especially in the part where the man behaves offensively.

- You're a fool!

- Yes it is. I even have a certificate about it. And in the column "reason" it is written: I communicate a lot with fools.

- You can't dance.

- Yes, what kind of dance is there. With you, the main thing is to have time to remove the leg quickly, so as not to crush.

— What did you bark there?

- Weird. I have no problem communicating with other people. Only with you. Maybe it's just you or your bad hearing.

- Are you very brave?

- What are you holding on to? Are you afraid that the coupon with a discount to the emergency room will burn in vain?

These are all just approximate models of situations. You can choose a specific option and style of communication only taking into account the communication and character of the person.

It is worth remembering that it will not work to shake the self-esteem of a self-confident representative of the stronger sex. But with a weakling, there will be no problems. One way or another, to endure bullying and moral pressure is not worth it. To do this, you can use a number of universal phrases described below:

• I probably need to look like a sucker to match you;
• no need to feel sorry for him, he is not sick, this is his usual appearance;
• yes, beauty is clearly not your dignity;
• I would send you, but, apparently, you have already been there;
• think, at least with some brains, you can use those in the back, closer to the ass, you always do that;
• a positive Rh factor is, apparently, the only “plus” in the list of your virtues;
• it’s not scary, I didn’t remember your name either;
• I have no strength to listen to your insanity.

How to behave

To morally humiliate a person, it is not enough just to find a few phrases on the Internet, memorize them and use them. It is necessary that they sound confident, that they fall into place and that a person feels really crushed after them. To do this, you need to speak calmly.

Imagine that you, in response to offensive words, almost crying, shout to a person: "Yes, you are an imbecile!" It seems that you said that he was stupid and did it without a mat - but it will look more pathetic than spectacular. But if in response to attacks you answer absolutely calmly, without raising your voice: “How tired I am of your attempts to pretend to be a smart person”- this will certainly not be the reaction that your opponent expected to receive and he will be unsettled.

In this case, you cannot:

• Laugh at your own ridicule- it spoils the whole impression. Listeners themselves must understand that you said something offensive and funny - and laugh themselves.
• Scream. If you raise your voice - this is a weakness, it shows that you are really hurt and prevents the interlocutor from clearly understanding your words. Also, if you're fuming, you may not remember that you wanted to sound smart and pretty.
• Cry. Tears are even more obvious than screaming, show that you are really uncomfortable. Therefore, if you feel that you are close to tears, it is better to catch your breath, count to yourself to ten, and only then make your move in a quarrel.

If it seems to you that you will never succeed in acting calmly and contemptuously, practice in front of a mirror. Rehearse a mocking facial expression, an ironic smile, a sympathetic shake of the head. Find a gesture that will perfectly show your opinion of a person - you can, for example:

• tilt your head to your shoulder as if you doubt that you heard the person correctly, what he just said is so stupid;
• raise an eyebrow in surprise - as if you are hearing such nonsense for the first time;
• if you wear glasses, move them to the edge of your nose and look over, as if you want to get a better look at the interlocutor and make sure that he is sitting in front of you.

Any non-verbal expression of contempt humiliates a person. Often you can beautifully humiliate without saying a single word. For example, ignore - and pay attention to a person only after a few unsuccessful attempts to get through to you. At the same time, you can pretend to be surprised and say:

• "I'm sorry, I didn't hear you";
• "I'm sorry, did you say something?";
• "But I thought it was somewhere near the radio playing, and it's you".

The main thing is to look sincere and even friendly in the process, so that a person feels like an empty place, which is even difficult to notice.

What should I say?

But ignoring a person is an art that needs to be honed and trained for a long time so that it looks really impressive and so as not to break loose in the process. For most of us, humiliating a person with words is much easier. The main thing is to choose them correctly.

Truth and sore spots

“Telling the truth is easy and pleasant,” said one book character, and he was right. But how rarely do we do this in everyday life! We will never tell a fat person that he is fat, or an ugly person that he is ugly. Politeness is taught to us from childhood, and that is why the truth can be so painful. If you hit it in a weak spot, it will definitely humiliate and confuse a person.

You should take a closer look and identify what the interlocutor is experiencing the most. It could be:

• Appearance. Many people suffer from this and to humiliate a person without a mat is the easiest thing in this area. Maybe one ear is higher than the other? Maybe he has a big nose? Maybe he has acne, although he is no longer a teenager, or does he have thin, sparse hair? Maybe if it's a woman, she looks older than her age? For each flaw, you can come up with a biting phrase.
  — "Have you ever tried to fly them?"- a man with big ears.
  — “Yes, you can hang yourself on such a nose!”- big-nosed.
  — "Madam, you are so well preserved for your magpies"- A woman in her thirties.
• Low intelligence. Truly stupid people rarely feel like that, but everyone else can doubt their level of intelligence and suffer from it.
  - "Are you so stupid from birth, or did you take lessons?"
  - "When everyone was standing in line for the mind, you probably slept and missed everything."
  “What is 6 times 8? Are you sure? That's what I thought."
• Low earnings. If a person earns a little, this is most likely his weak point. But you need to look closely - if a person earns little because of his own ideology, it will not work to hurt him in this field. But others can be teased.
  - "Let's go to the cinema? Oh, you don't have any money."
  “Poverty is not a vice, as they say, but I could not live like that.”
  “You wouldn’t even have money for matches.”
• Low cultural level. If a person is not educated, he can be ridiculed with a special taste.
  - "Who's playing on the radio, Bach or Mozart?"
  “You look like you stepped out of a Picasso painting.”
  “Didn’t Dostoevsky write about you?”
  Most likely, a person will not even understand ridicule, but more educated listeners will be able to laugh.

For men, a separate point, often a weak point is potency. In a dispute with an opponent, you can humiliate a person by saying that he is so angry because he is not able to satisfy a woman in bed. Or say something like “If in bed you were such a lion as here, the girls would follow you in herds.”

For women, the weak point is often external attractiveness. You can hint to her that she looks old, fat, or has small breasts - and if done gently and sympathetically, it will be doubly humiliating.

The main thing is the ability to observe, draw conclusions and hit exactly the weak spot that hurts a person.

Demonstration of your superiority

People don't like being shown that they are worse than others. Therefore, a very effective means of humiliation will be to show that you are better at something.

• You can use more expensive things, you can mention that you were on vacation or in an interesting place - but in such a way that it does not look like boasting, but something completely natural for you.
• You can wear expensive clothes.
• You can even invite an unpleasant person to participate in an event for which he obviously does not have enough money, and enjoy his reaction.

Reminders and revelations

If you have a good memory, you can do a great job of putting others in their place by reminding them of the stupid or shameful things they have done, as well as the stupid things they have said and the puddles they have sat in.

You can even make them look like fools in front of mutual acquaintances by divulging some secret and genuinely surprised by the negative reaction - “Oh, well, I thought we were all our own here, what are you ashamed of”.

The main thing is to make excuses with the best of intentions, so that in the eyes of others you do not turn into a bore, who reminds a good person of his mistakes.

How to besiege a person

How to close the mouth of a person you know is easy to come up with. But what if you see your opponent for the first time and do not know anything about his weak points?
In this case, phrases that humiliate a person will come to the rescue.

How to humiliate a man who meets on the street?

Beautiful girls often suffer from monotonous attempts to get acquainted - many men simply do not understand that they do not want to hear and see them. Therefore, you can use biting phrases:

• To you or to me? I suggest: you go to your place, I go to my place, and everyone is happy!
• No, I don't want to meet you. I will be bored with you, but you will not understand me.
• Yes, you are just a wonderful comedian! If you joke funny, it's already a miracle.
• I admire you! With such a face, I would spend my whole life under the covers, but you are okay, even on the street trying to get acquainted ...
• Try dating in the dark. No fool will give you a phone in the light.

The main thing is to have an expression of bored superiority on your face. Or you can completely ignore the attempt to get acquainted - answer "yes", "of course" and give the phone number of the nearest morgue.

How to humiliate a mistress or a lovebird

Most women are in awe of their appearance - and how decent they look in the eyes of society. Therefore, you can use the phrase:

• You must have been beautiful. Men so twenty ago.
• There are injustices - and there is no mind, and there is nothing to compensate.
• God created all women from a rib, but you, it seems, from an ass.
• It's a shame to offend you - the mirror offends you every day.

The main thing in the process is to look better - and this will be an additional humiliation for the opponent.

How to humiliate a subordinate who forgot about subordination

In a work team, quarrels are not uncommon, and sometimes you can find a situation in which a subordinate forgets about his place and starts a dispute with his superiors in a raised voice. You can't let that happen - but you can't sound unprofessional either. You can use the following phrases:

• Don't make me regret the day I hired you.
• It looks like you just lost your bonus.
• You are a disgrace to our firm and pull the entire team back.
• With workers like you, we will never succeed.
• Perhaps you should consider and continue your career growth somewhere else?
• It looks like the company is overpaying you - with this level of professionalism, you don't deserve this level of salary.

Arguing with a subordinate at his level is a gross mistake. You should speak weightily and nip the dispute in the bud, under the threat of dismissal, so as not to drop your authority.

How to humiliate a partner who cheated

To hurt a person who has committed adultery is a natural impulse, after the implementation of which it may even become easier for you. Phrases can be used:

• No need to make excuses - do not humiliate yourself even more.
• I do not want to share with you any more table or bed - what can you find in you at all?
• It was so stupid to believe in your honesty that now I hate to even think about it.
• For someone who is doing so badly, you surprisingly easily traded me for a couple of pleasant nights.

Each of us always knows more about a partner than about everyone else - and in case of betrayal, this knowledge can be applied. What is he afraid of? What does he not like about himself? In what situations was he a fool? All this can be remembered and thrown in his face at parting.

How to call a person

Just telling a person that he is a fool is childish. Using swear words is ugly and embarrassing in public. Therefore, you can use other options - said with a due degree of confidence in their rightness and coldness, they can sound great, despite some old-fashionedness:

• stupid (non-stupid) being- a man who is even unworthy of the title of a man in his stupidity;
• animal (you can add the adjective "dirty", "useless", "evil")- a person who has risen on the same level with unreasonable cattle;
• bastard- a man low and vile, devoid of conscience;
• shameless, shameless- a man without any shame;
• reptile- a person whose qualities are more reminiscent of a slimy reptile;
• livestock- a person is stupid and incapable of reasonable actions;
• carrion- a person who has nowhere to go lower;
• imbecile- a person whose mental development is equal to the development of a mentally retarded person;
• empty talk or empty talk- a person who talks in vain.

Words should always be applied to the place, otherwise you will not be dishonored for long.

How to say that a person is stupid

Calling a person stupid is boring, unoriginal, and not offensive at all. Beautiful connected phrases are much more effective:

• Are you always such a fool, or is it just me that's so lucky?
• Don't be upset! Cuttlefish don't have a brain at all, but they do live.
• Go on my friend. According to the theory of probability, someday you have to say something meaningful.
• Have you thought about something? This is something new!
• Don't try to think, dear, otherwise you'll get a headache out of habit.
• I don't know what tool you use to be such a fool, but you should patent it since it works so well.
• I know you're not as stupid as you might think by looking at your face. It would be simply impossible.

If a person is really stupid, he simply will not understand more complex indications of this fact. So you can not bother and use simple obvious phrases.

How to humiliate a person with smart words

Smart and well-aimed phrases are always useful to remember - then, in the event of an unexpected attack, you can answer the offender harshly and bitingly. The psychology of the humiliated is such that he will not want to repeat this experience. The main thing is not to be shy and not to be afraid to offend a person.

• Do you still work there? And all the same? Well, at your age you can still plow and plow, I believe you will succeed.
• And I would like to answer you, yes, nature has already avenged me.
• You definitely need to add fish to your diet. It is good for the intellect.
• If you want to hurt me, you'll have to say something smart. I don't think you can, however.
• Are you joking like that? I'm sorry, I didn't understand right away.

The main thing in all phrases is to apply them in a timely manner, sound confident and not be afraid of rebuff. And if you don’t want to get into an argument, you can simply answer “yes”, “of course” and “did you say something?” and with all appearance to show the interlocutor that he is worthless - this is also humiliating enough to use.

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Contact with other people is not always pleasant, especially when your interlocutor is frankly impudent and ignorant. In this case, you often really want to call such a person beautifully and send them far and for a long time. But to do this without a mat can be difficult. Therefore, people are wondering how to humiliate a person without a mat?

Most often, conflicts arise in the workplace between employees. There are many reasons for this. Perhaps colleagues experience mutual dislike, compete, envy each other, so they try to put the other person in an unsightly light in front of other employees or in front of superiors.

Psychologists recommend adequately responding to insults, sometimes proud silence and detachment only worsen the situation, and can also bring a person to serious depression. Therefore, it is necessary to humiliate a person with words so that he once and for all no longer wants to unleash a conflict.

Often, because of anger, you want to pour obscene language on the offender. However, in the workplace, such statements are simply unacceptable. The question arises, how to humiliate a person with words? However, this applies not only to conflicts at work, because a person can be offended anywhere.

Any witty phrase, but said in the subject, will help to get out of the situation. Not all people are able to come up with them on the go, so you can memorize a few expressions designed for specific cases. Over time, they will imperceptibly, but firmly enter the vocabulary. The main thing to remember is that in no case should you be like your offender, using the same rude words.

In addition to humiliating phrases, you need to monitor your voice and behavior. You should not break into a scream and snap, as this indicates a person’s self-doubt, which will only warm up the evil intentions of the offender. In order to culturally humiliate a person with words, it is necessary to behave absolutely calmly. The ideal option would be if you also connect irony or sarcasm. Such behavior will have a devastating effect on an impolite opponent.

How to insult a person without swearing?

Each person has their own merits and demerits. In a conflict situation, you just need to pay attention to the minuses. The main thing is to find your bearings in time and determine what you can cling to at the moment.

Appearance

Mental capacity

This option, how to insult a person with words without using obscene expressions, is the most common. After all, every person wants to look educated and erudite. In this case, having heard not very smart statements of the opponent, it can be noted in front of everyone that the last time such a smart guy met in the nursery group. In addition to the unsuccessful phrases of the offender, you can focus on poorly done work. You can just tell him not to worry, because he is not alone, there are a whole bunch of such mediocrities in this world.

Incompetence

This option is good to use in the workplace. For example, with a leader, start asking the offender questions in which he is not competent, although he should understand them. In this case, you yourself must understand how to load a person with words based on the working situation.

exposure

Another way to humiliate a person with words without a mat is to try to expose him. If there is information that the opponent spoke badly about someone or did something bad and wants to hide it, then this is a great opportunity to tell other people about it. Thus, it is possible to expose the offender not in the best light in front of others, especially if their opinion is important to him.

Truth

If a person does not know how to humiliate a person without a checkmate, then he just needs to find some weak spot in his opponent, and then press on it. The best effect can be achieved if this is done in front of other people, thereby showing everyone his weak spot. The most interesting thing is that, in fact, the absolute truth will be told, which simply no one should have known about. But in order to know the weakness of the offender, you need to be intimately acquainted with him. Not all people reveal their soul to strangers. This method, however, is somewhat mean.

intimate humiliation

Often there are situations when a man allows himself to offend a woman. In this case, you must definitely fight back. In order to humiliate a guy, it is enough to express your negative opinion about the night spent together. The representatives of the stronger sex value their sexual abilities very much, so any negative remark about them will offend him 100%. Perhaps he will even hate the offender.

What other phrases can be used?

If a person does not have a natural wit and cannot figure out how to beautifully insult an impolite opponent on the go, then it is worth finding a few worthwhile phrases and memorizing them. Such expressions can be found on the Internet, and they are for all conflict cases that may occur. The main thing is to say them without expressing your emotions, but in a quiet, even tone or in a joking manner.
Examples of some good sayings on how to humiliate a person with smart words:

• He began to think - this is something new.
• What are you doing here? I thought the zoo was closed for the night!
• Probably, creating you, the Lord decided to save money.
• I even feel sorry for offending you, because nature has already done it for me.
• Do you love nature? Even after what she did to you?!
• I beg you, turn away, the sight of you makes my dinner sour in my stomach.
• You will open your mouth in dentistry.
• Your wit is pretty dull.
• It seems to me that your brain went for a walk and did not return.
• Better leave in English, otherwise I can send in other languages.

Currently, even doctors say that the use of obscene language in speech is one of the main reasons for the internal destruction of a person. Of course, the easiest way is to simply call the offender swear words and send a well-known place around. However, this is not acceptable in all situations. Therefore, it is important to know how to insult a person without a mat in order to get out of the conflict with your head held high.

Of course, every person has encountered rudeness in everyday life, hearing swear words and swearing addressed to him. Even if you accidentally step on someone's foot in a trolleybus, you may be offended. Agree, it is very insulting when, because of a trifle, a rude person calls you indecent words. It would seem that he should be answered in the same form. However, take your time. Profanity in this situation is a bad helper.

Don't answer rudeness with rudeness

Try to put the person in his place in a "peaceful" way, without humiliating him.

Don't know how to insult a person without swearing? Then this article is especially for you.

It is not uncommon for situations when, after the words “You are the last beast!” or "Oh, you bastard!" a man pounces on the offender with his fists. He does this because he simply does not have the slightest idea how to behave in a civilized manner in such a situation.

Remember that the manifestation of aggression only leads to nervous depression, poor health, and sometimes thoughts of suicide. It is for this reason that everyone should have information on how to insult a person without a mat.

Know that impudence and impudence must be answered with beautiful, dignified, and most importantly, wise phrases.

What is an insult

Before continuing with the question of how to insult a person without a mat, let's define the very concept of insult. What it is? And this is nothing more than deliberate infliction of insult, as a result of which the honor and dignity of a citizen are humiliated, and this is often done in a cynical form. Even actions that have a negative connotation, such as slapping, spitting, pushing, can be regarded as an insult in certain situations.

Currently, a huge number of psychological techniques are known, through which the problem of how to offend a person without a mat is solved.

Your task is to find out why your offender fell upon you with abuse, and, of course, you must have a decent response prepared in advance for swear words.

How to respond to an insult

How to smartly insult a person if you were accidentally or intentionally scolded?

First of all, you do not need to interpret swearing literally and take words to heart. It is possible that your opponent is just in a bad mood, and you fell into his “hot hand”. He may have been ill-bred, but this omission is not your fault.

Remember that people with an eccentric and scandalous character often cannot cope with negative emotions that suddenly swept over them, so they “break down” on others. Perhaps they also offended someone. And is it worth getting angry at such people? In addition to pity, rude people do not cause anything.

The universal variant of behavior here is not to pay attention to the insulting words and taunts of the opponent. Imagine that they are not addressed to you.

If your manager or an employee of the company in which you work is rude to you, then it is better not to provoke the development of a conflict situation, but to try to smooth it out. Well, arguing with the authorities does not make sense at all.

How to respond to the offender depending on the type of criticism

Before you parry the offender's phrases, you need to mentally analyze them, and if they have a "rational grain", then there is no need to dispute this fact. It's better to say, "Yes, you're absolutely right!" If, after insults, you get the impression that you are being slandered, while you have absolutely no idea how you can insult a person with words, but in a civilized form, then ask him a clarifying question.

In particular, if we are talking about any flaws and mistakes that you are accused of, while they know that you are not involved in their commission, but they still try to denigrate in this way, then it is better to ask the following: “Do you have a specific proposal in solution to this problem?" Believe me, this question often puts people in a stupor.

If constructive criticism is fair, but only partially, then, of course, it should not be fully recognized. For example, if you were told in a rude way: “You always don’t come to work on time!”, But at the same time you know that this is not so, then you can answer: “Yes, I was late today.”

There is a completely logical question about how to offend a person with words, but delicately, if his criticism is absolutely unfair. In this case, it is recommended to ask a response question directly related to the specifics of rudeness. They may be different. Let's consider them in more detail.

Clarifying

You can respond to attacks and barbs like this: “Why exactly are you interested in this?” What is the subtext behind your words? Why do you think so?

These questions can simply discourage a person, but this does not always happen, and sometimes the interlocutors begin to give detailed answers to them.

Actual

Such questions provoke the offender to speak specific facts and give examples. These include, in particular: "Give an example" or "Name a specific fact." If the offender reacts as follows: “You can bring a huge number of them ...”, then you should not continue further dialogue - take a long pause.

Alternative

Questions like these are designed to help the opponent express their real reasons for dissatisfaction. For example, you can ask him: “Are you annoyed by my lack of punctuality or what clothes I wear to work?” And believe me, the answer in most cases will be "sincere."

devastating

These questions are asked so that the offender expresses all his claims and does not pester you with them in the future.

These include, in particular, this: “You are unhappy with the way I talk to clients, how I dress, how I make reports. What else am I doing wrong?"

Of course, each person begins to be tormented by the question of how much to offend a person after he has been scolded, and even in obscene form. However, we emphasize once again that responding to rudeness with abuse is not a way out. Believe that your offender is waiting for this to get on your nerves and upset your mental balance. So don't give him that pleasure.

As a rule, in such situations, one should show maximum calmness and composure, and not think about how to offend a person to tears.

Often, hearing critical remarks addressed to him, a person begins to look for excuses for himself: “No, I'm not like that. It's not about me. You are unfair to me” and so on. Of course, this model of behavior is wrong. By justifying yourself, you thereby belittle yourself and put yourself in a position of guilt. In addition, your excuses in most cases are practically of no interest to anyone. All the more stupid to "bleach" one's honor in front of a person for whom to humiliate or insult someone is the same as drinking a cup of coffee in the early morning.

As emphasized above, you must understand the true motives of the offender's behavior and determine why he scolds you.

How else to respond to an insult in an intelligent way

As a rule, in order to upset a person with a "word", people use standard templates. If you do not want to be caught off guard in this way, then you should have an elementary idea of ​​\u200b\u200bhow to insult a person in a smart way. At your leisure, take a piece of paper and a pencil, and then make a rough list of these expressions. You just have to think about the "worthy and polite" answers to them.

For example, if a rude person declares that after a fun feast you look unpresentable, then you can offer a solution to the question of how to insult a person in a smart way, namely: “It’s amazing that you didn’t go to any party yesterday, but you still look" not like a pickle", for some reason. Look at the bruises under your eyes."

You can parry offensive words by translating negative qualities into virtues. Suppose you hear: "You, as always, do not stop talking, rattling like a magpie." In response, you can say: "I'm just a sociable person, unlike some." Agree, a good example demonstrating how to insult a person in a smart way.

To calm the offender, you can remind him of well-known expressions such as “We are not judged by ourselves” or “We are what we think about.” Even if a person does not understand the meaning of these sayings, you must explain to him that in an attempt to defile your personality, in fact, he will speak foul language against himself.

In any case, to get out of sensitive situations with dignity, there is no need to be rude.

Have you ever thought about how to morally kill a person? I think everyone thought about it. Starting from an early age, when a person is faced with a social environment, he begins to experience pressure. Peers test each other for strength, gradually transferring such behavior into adulthood. Someone leaves these childish pranks in the past. But there are people who like to humiliate others. How to fight back and forever discourage the desire to exercise on you?

How to morally kill a person while maintaining dignity

Suppose an insolent person speaks publicly, insultingly, sarcastically, makes inappropriate jokes, and scoffs in every possible way. The friendly laughter of his buddies surrounding anyone can unbalance. But... this situation can easily be turned against the offender. What does he expect from you? In Russian speaking, bummer. To show their superiority, such people assert themselves at the expense of others. This is a kind of duel: whose spirit is stronger? Now I will list a number of tips on how to morally kill a person in such a situation:

• Maintain equanimity. A calm, ironic attitude to attacks sobers up the offender, intrigues observers.
• To insulting questions like "Well, how is it ... so-and-so?" you can just say: I don’t know, you know better.
• All nasty things can be turned against the attacker, calmly mocking his words without dirt or insults. Don't stoop to the level of your opponent.
• Observers will quickly lose interest in the incident or even laugh at your clumsy attempts to humiliate you.
• Seeing your spiritual superiority, inner strength, the mocker will quickly retreat in search of a weaker victim.

There are times when we experience treacherous betrayal. Most immediately think about revenge, mentally savoring the details, imagining how they will act in response. But it is much more possible to morally kill a person, while maintaining dignity, spiritual nobility. Believe me, squabbles, plans for revenge, various nasty things in response humiliate you, making you petty. Later it will be most unpleasant, maybe even ashamed.

It is much wiser to act reasonably, prudently. Refute slander. Hidden intrigues to make public. Turn the meanness of the offender against him. Worst of all - public condemnation. However, think a hundred times, punishing others like this: maybe people deserve a second chance?

The best way to morally kill a person is to show him his baseness so that he clearly understands it. Pangs of conscience, mental humiliation, condemnation of others will make you seriously think about your own behavior. Maybe even fix it. I wish everyone to be worthy, wise, strong people, able to fight back any insolent!