Hold on dear everything will be fine. Statuses about the fact that everything will be fine

If you are sad, and your mood is not getting better, and your loved one just comes up to you and hugs you with the words: “Everything will be fine, I’m with you” - this is real happiness. If after his smile and warm words you feel better, cherish this person.

Happiness will come ... It will only timidly knock and quietly cross the threshold. And with his arrival, everything will be fine.

For some, happiness is when there is no time to take care of the farm in the VKontakte application, because you still need to have time to respond to numerous messages.

Happiness does not have the ability to come tomorrow, it does not know about yesterday. It does not look into the future and does not return to the past. It can come only now, only at this moment, so it is so important not to miss it.

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It becomes lighter in the soul when you see someone's smile, but you cannot describe the feeling when a smile is meant for you.

As it happens, it’s good to wake up early in the morning out of habit, but a little later you realize that you don’t need to get up early today, and, wrapping yourself warmly, continue to sleep. What happiness!

For happiness, one thing is enough, but every day is different.

There will be happiness, I believe ... it will be ... there is still a little bit left and everything will be fine ...

Happiness is when you don’t have time to water the garden at the Farm, because you are bombarded with messages =)

Happiness is when, if you are in a bad mood, he will come up, hug you and say: “Everything will be fine.” And then he smiles, and your soul becomes warmer.

Happiness has no tomorrow; he does not have yesterday either; it does not remember the past, does not think about the future; he has a present ... and that is not a day, but a moment.

what happiness to wake up, and without opening your eyes to understand that you don’t need to go anywhere, calmly roll over to the other side and fall asleep again.

Sedna was brushing her teeth, and touched a glass with toothbrushes and a razor, but she caught it all) unless this is not a small happiness ..)

If you are not like others, it does not mean that you are worse.

Want to cry. Cry with happiness!

Happiness is waking up on Monday, grabbing the alarm clock and realizing that there are still two hours before getting up.

It's nice to see how happy a person smiles. It is doubly pleasant when you are the reason for his smile.

The happiest person is the one who, having got into the past, would not change anything there.

You must be able to be happy every moment, and not wait for happiness to come sometime later. Suddenly today is generally the best thing that was, is and will be in your life ...

Happy give out eyes ...

Happy give out eyes ...

To be happy you need only one thing, only a new one every day.

He is happiness ... and that's all ... I love him .... even if not in catchphrases .... I just love .... albeit at a distance ....

Difficult in places, but the other is not needed.

Happiness is when people speak well of you, and you are still alive.

And sometimes you really want to snuggle up to your loved one when it’s so bad, snuggle just for the sake of her saying “Everything will be fine!” Let there be more tears from this phrase, but then everything will definitely be fine, only because there is someone to snuggle up to

Of course everything will be fine. We are sure of it. We pronounce such a desire on birthdays and on the eve of the new year. We are so encouraging each other in case of failure. Songs with the phrase "Tomorrow everything will be fine" become our real hits, which everyone knows by heart. And we are confident that this cherished dream will come true. Only life shows something else: we are in conflict with loved ones, we feel hostility and suffer from this, we are nervous and angry, we receive a small salary, and the country is getting worse and worse. And then we ask in disappointment: when will everything be fine? And how much longer to wait until this coveted "good"?

I hope that everything will be fine - why do our hopes not come true?
What needs to be done to make everything really good tomorrow?
When will everything finally be okay for each of us?

The other day I was lucky to be at the concert of the Okean Elzy group in Kyiv. From the upper sector, there was a beautiful view not only of the stage, but of the entire Olimpiysky stadium, one glance was enough to see - here it is, a real "full house". Tens of thousands of happy people filled the stands and the entire field - they danced and shouted to the famous songs, applauded and organized flash mobs. Each song met warmly, but one - especially.

This refrain was sung by the entire stadium, thousands of hands went up either to the beat of the music, or in a kind of prayer for Ukraine. Looking around and back, I noticed thousands of eyes and many had tears in them, there were also people who wept uncontrollably. All the spectators, as one, at that moment dreamed and hoped that the time would finally come when everything would be fine for each of us. This song, always perceived by us as personal, this time concerned the general - the desire that tomorrow everything will be fine, is carried out throughout the country, because today we have a real civil war going on.

The concert ended, everyone went home with a cheerful mood. Many people sang "everything will be good" as they walked along the avenues and streets. But what's next? Has the situation changed in the country, in their families, for them personally the next day? No. Tomorrow came the same as usual. The war continued without even thinking of changing - the news every day reported the deaths of both civilians and military. I do not think that someone has radically changed his life and began to feel happier. How can this be? Why such a bright and simple desire to everything was fine, does not come true? And even vice versa - everything is only getting worse?

I want everything to be good - we are looking for the roots of desires

Belief in a brighter future, in the fact that "tomorrow everything will be fine" is typical for the majority of our compatriots. It seems that this is just a cliche picked up by someone sometime and spread because of the beautiful sound. But it's much more complicated...

Phrase " Everything will be fine even if..."actually carries huge layers that reflect our mentality, which has been formed over millennia. Difficult weather conditions, unfriendly forest-steppe mixed with swamps and mountains, many wild animals and an even greater number of enemy nomadic tribes - under the pressure of all this, a a unique mental superstructure that is not found anywhere else in the world.We could only survive by working closely with each other, supporting the weak, providing help to those in need.Years ago, if a house burned to the ground, its owner could only hope for those who lived nearby, in the same village, on those who tomorrow could find themselves in the same situation.Something has always pushed us to do a good deed to someone who has suffered, to someone who is weak, who needs help. it will be good, I believe in it ... "the neighbors of the victim were cheering hundreds of years ago, and everyone helped - some with bread, some with a corner in their house, some with clothes. And all this is not built on visual pity and compassion nii, as in Western culture, but on the urethral feeling of mercy, life's truth and justice.

Although outwardly visual compassion and urethral mercy very similar, in fact they have a difference. The viewer often, without realizing it, substitutes concepts, confuses where good and evil are, and does "good" deeds that ultimately lead to a deplorable result. A simple example: humanitarian aid for the poor countries of Africa - flooding African countries with balloon medicines, clothing and food, Western countries have achieved a very bad result: instead of development, Africans demand new portions of humanitarian aid.

Urethral mercy does not involve zealous help to everyone, but only to those who really need it. We, with our mentality, never try to just feed a person and forget about him (read: pay off), but, on the contrary, we have an inner desire to show deeper help, for example, give a fishing rod and teach how to fish. And this is manifested in everything, in our schools it is customary to pull up those who are lagging behind, at work - to help those who cannot cope. "Of course, everything will be fine," we encourage the other, showing participation in his life and fate.

Our society was formed in such a way that at the head of the pack there was always a urethral person who took responsibility for everyone. By nature, such a person has a whole range of characteristics that allow him to perform his role correctly and without flaw. Given to society, its best properties live in the heart of each of our people.

Unfortunately, in the best manifestations of our mentality there are traps for consciousness that distort reality, deprive us of the right thoughts and actions. And one of them is the desire "everything will be fine tomorrow." Being muscularly patient, we seem to be stuck in a place where there is no way out. And instead of acting, we just expect everything to be fine. Forgetting that for this well something needs to be done. And the more good you want, the more you need to work.

The feeling that in the event of a tragedy we will definitely be helped deprives each of us of personal responsibility. We all subconsciously expect that a strong person (leader) will come and do something that will save us, change everything in the world. We expect that the whole society will change, and we - following - will definitely catch up. The terrible situation is that we, having shifted responsibility to another, ourselves continue to do things that lead to exactly the opposite result than "everything will be fine tomorrow":

• we do not understand our own children, raising them on a whim, which is how we lose a whole generation of young people, simply simply not understanding them;
• we have conflicts in families and the number of divorces is growing so much that it exceeds the number of marriages;
• we are dissatisfied with our work, our wealth;
• we take and give bribes, even at the smallest level, for example, to a doctor or a teacher, thereby increasing corruption in the country;
• we get angry and offended, scream and hysteria, sit in our fears and depressions...

And we are looking for an explanation for all this not in ourselves, in our actions, but in someone else. The partner is to blame for the couple, the teachers are to blame for the gaps in the educational system, the doctors are to blame for the poor health care, the president, corrupt officials or people of a different nationality are to blame for the situation in the country. And so on and so forth. Wherever you look, someone is to blame, not I. But I am the same husband, father, doctor, teacher, policeman, politician, ordinary person who blames everyone around, but not himself. And he waits, waits for everything to change and then everything will be fine tomorrow. It simply cannot be otherwise. But the mental superstructure assumed the actions of the entire flock for the good of the flock, and not just the expectation of help.

Collectivist thinking does not allow us to look at the world for real, but he has changed a lot. The new, skin era dictates its own rules to us, and they are in personal responsibility for everything around. You can't expect others to change if you don't change yourself. You cannot expect that everything will be necessarily good, because without your own action, this will definitely not happen. Moreover, while we wait, others act and benefit from our naivety and patience.

What to do so that everything is really good tomorrow

So, in order to change the world around you, you need to think about what I can do for everyone. As practice shows, not all actions, even with the best intentions, help to make everything go well. This is due to the fact that often we simply do not know what action to take correctly. The roots of our desires are hidden from us in the subconscious, and we are full of our rationalizations and are often mistaken.

Instruction

Any self-hypnosis requires relaxation. Take a bath with fragrant foam, listen to pleasant music, and only then start talking to yourself. In this way, you will achieve a positive result faster than if you set yourself up for a positive one while standing in a traffic jam or in a huge line at the store.

Practice self-hypnosis regularly, try doing this procedure daily in front of a mirror for 10-15 minutes.

The selection of phrases is considered especially important, you can read them in books, listen to them on audio media, but most importantly, keep in mind that you must understand every word you utter. If you didn’t like one thing, replace it with a synonym, your goal is to feel peace of mind, and not think about what you say. The duration of the text is selected individually. Maybe you perceive short self-suggestions better, and perhaps texts 2-3 pages long will work for you.

Remember that in any self-hypnosis it is forbidden to use the words “no” and “no”. Any denial can only cause negativity in your subconscious. Self-hypnosis is helping the subconscious (and not action) in the formation of certain images. So do not pronounce self-hypnosis phrases thoughtlessly, just blankly reading them from a piece of paper. Let some images and situations appear in your mind. Imagine yourself the sound of the sea, the singing of birds, etc. Imagine yourself floating in a warm ocean or riding a convertible. Positive thoughts will add effect to the spoken words. And all this taken together will set you up to believe that everything in your life will be fine.

Don't expect changes in yourself straightaway. Let the inner mood in a good way become a tradition and a good habit. And stop seeing the bad in everything. Maybe while you inspire yourself that everything will be fine with you, in fact, everything has long been adjusted.

“Today you are where your thoughts of yesterday took you” - this aphorism of James Allen is often used to show how thoughts affect your position and condition. Therefore, it is true that, inspiring yourself good, you are at least creating the conditions for realizing the best part of your life.

Instruction

Be sure to control your thoughts every minute. Every negative thought you have must be nipped in the bud and replaced with a positive one. Force yourself to think positive, especially if everything is seen in black. Look then at the sky, at the animals, at the beautiful pictures, remember the good books, i.e. specifically and purposefully look for the beautiful in life and rejoice in it.

Stop complaining if you have had such a habit. The pity of others and even the help offered will not bring you tangible benefits, they will not teach you anything. It is only in your power to change your own worldview and your own situation, so become independent, responsible for your thoughts and feelings, learn to believe in your own strength.

Start yourself the habit of meditating three times a day, from 5 to 30 minutes. Learn to relax completely and in this state to inspire yourself good, positive statements, represent what you want. Many have proven that in a state of deep relaxation, the frequency of brain functioning changes. This allows you to expand its abilities and include in the work the reserve capabilities of the body.

Bet yourself goals and achieve them, think about them constantly and make efforts, act so that there is no time or energy left for bad thoughts. Think about your hobby, and be sure to set aside time for it every day. Even 5 minutes of your favorite thing a day can change your attitude.

Do good and kind deeds for others. Think about how you can help other people and start helping. This will improve your faith in your own strength, give you a sense of the fullness of life and, perhaps, the fulfillment of your mission. This recommendation does not at all mean embarking on the path of altruism and selflessly improving the lives of all people around. It's always best to strike a balance and stick to common sense. But if you can improve the lives of loved ones - do it, if you can lend a helping hand - lend.

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Try to buy fewer products than usual, filling the refrigerator only with healthy and approved products. With a strong desire to eat something tasty, a person often opens the refrigerator and if he finds his favorite treat there, he immediately takes it for him, despite any prohibitions. This desire will gradually disappear if you stop buying too much. Also, buy products on . If you come to the store with a feeling, you will definitely buy a lot of unnecessary and harmful things.

Set a clear goal. Write down on paper

When you wake up in the morning, you immediately begin to worry about what you will eat, what you need to do, what kind of people you should meet, and so on.

You worry about what others—family members, friends, colleagues, and strangers—may think of you. You walk past people on the street and, without even realizing it, you worry about how you look in their eyes.

You worry about your work responsibilities (emails, meetings, paperwork, etc.) and your personal obligations (family, meals, bills, and so on). It constantly seems to you that you are not good enough at something, you do not live the way you “should”, however, the moment when you will be satisfied with everything will never come.

Do you worry about comparing yourself to other people, about how much is left behind, about what lies ahead for you - good or bad, about what you lose sight of, about feeling guilty about what you, don't seem to get better, leaner, stronger, and smarter, all those things you shouldn't worry about.

And time goes by...

But you are not alone in this. We all get stuck in our own thoughts sometimes.

You must realize one thing: no matter what is happening in your life right now, everything will be fine, everything will work out.

We are constantly worried about what might go wrong, what other people will think of us, and so on and so forth. In short, we only focus on the negative options. However, they are only a small part of all the possibilities available to us. The chances that they will become a reality are small. But even if your fears come true (say, someone thinks badly of you), they are unlikely to significantly affect your life.

The truth is that even if your fears become reality, 99 percent of the time everything will be fine.

Think about what you've been worrying about lately. You've probably experienced all this before, haven't you? Yes, you were forced to solve the problems that arose, but your life did not collapse; on the contrary, you learned useful lessons that ultimately made you stronger.

If you always tell yourself that everything is fine, you can gradually release worries and anxieties and learn how to prevent their occurrence.

You can improve the quality of your thinking and life in general...

Start your day calmly, with a sincere smile on your face, and only then proceed to all things ...

It's worth practicing.

What to do in difficult times, when real trouble has come into your life?

How to deal with it?

“Today, on my forty-seventh birthday, I re-read the suicide note I wrote exactly twenty years ago, two minutes before my girlfriend Carol came into the room and said she was pregnant. Her words were the only reason why I did not commit suicide then. Suddenly, my life took on meaning, and I began to gradually change it for the better. It was not easy, but now Carol is my wife, with whom we have lived together in a happy marriage for nineteen years. My daughter is twenty-one years old, she is studying at the medical university. She has two younger brothers. I reread my suicide note every year on my birthday - I'm grateful that I was given a second chance at life."

This is an excerpt from an email I received from a student in my class named Kevin. His words reminded me that sometimes you have to experience "inner death" in order to be reborn and become stronger and happier.

Circumstances and people will sometimes break you. But if you focus on the positive, open your heart of love and keep going no matter what, then you will certainly be able to pick yourself up piece by piece, recover and become stronger and happier than you were before.

Angel and I have also dealt with turmoil in our lives - we lost loved ones and best friends, experienced a financial crisis, the collapse of business ideas, and so on. We have written about this for many years. But today, let me remind you of some clear signs that everything is going to be okay, even if you don't feel like it right now...

1. Change is happening right now. Nothing is certain. You are free.

Everything in life is temporary. Nothing lasts forever. Each moment gives us a new beginning and a new end. We get a second chance every second.

After the rain, the sun always shines. After the night there always comes a dawn - we are reminded of this every morning, but for some reason we refuse to notice it.

People from all over the world tell me similar heartbreaking stories all the time about how their whole life turned into an attempt to cope with one unfair event from the past. All the opportunities that are given to them, they burn at the stake with a fiery obsession with what cannot be changed. The main thing is to realize that YOU do not have to be one of these people.

You are a product of your past, but you should not be held captive by it. You become a prisoner when you cling to something that is no more. Be brave and say goodbye to the past, and then life will reward you with a new Hello! As hard as it is for you, you CAN, you SHOULD let go.

You have to let go and accept that you don't know how your life will turn out. Learn to love and appreciate this freedom. Only when you are hovering in the air, not knowing what to do next, will you be able to open your wings and fly towards the future. Yes, you do not know what awaits you, but it does not matter. It is important that you have finally opened the wings that will only carry you forward.

2. You have tons of amazing options.

As a rule, we seek only a tiny range of life experiences - good times, comfortable situations, experiences that make us happy. However, what we face every day in reality is completely different. Life gives us a wide range of very different experiences that cause anger and love, grief and joy, disappointment and delight, loneliness and confusion within us ... These emotions constantly replace each other. They are part of our reality - our collective state of humanity.

Question: how will YOU react to this?

You may rebel against injustice because you fail to get what you so desire. You may be angry at the whole world because of the pain and suffering you have experienced. You may try to resist and deny sadness, disappointment, embarrassment, and so on. Just remember that if you choose the negative, it will only make things worse in the long run and lead to more despair.

A more effective option, perhaps, is the full acceptance of reality and the wide range of life experiences that you are facing. This includes all your emotions, all your ups and downs, all your happy and sad moments, and what happens in between. Life is not only rainbows and colorful butterflies. It is complex and unpredictable.

To embrace life fully means to open yourself to unimaginable possibilities, to be ready for unexpected changes, to show compassion and kindness to yourself in difficult times, to give love no matter what happens, and to be grateful for the opportunity to experience it all.

This means not expecting that life will always be calm and measured, but accepting reality as it is, accepting yourself as you are, and striving for the best.

3. You can take a small step towards change for the better at any time.

No need to build mountains in your head. No need to try to conquer the whole world at once. When you're looking for instant gratification (great, quick change), your life becomes painful and frustrating. When you take every moment as an opportunity to make a small, worthwhile investment in yourself, the results will follow.

When everything is destroyed, you can find many small things that need to be restored. When things seem to be going wrong, even the smallest positive effort can make a difference. Times of great adversity are times of great opportunity. There are no problems that you cannot deal with. When things are going well, it's very easy to fall into a routine of complacency. It's easy to forget how incredibly capable and resourceful you can be. Remember to take one small positive step after another to change your life for the better.

If you want to start right now, don't delay, challenge yourself. Choose a specific area of ​​your life that you would like to improve, and…

Write down specific details of your current situation. (What are you worried about? What happened? What do you want to change?)

Write down the answer to the following question: What daily rituals will help resolve the current situation? (Be honest with yourself. Are you currently taking any actions to help solve the problems you have encountered?)

Write down specific details of your ideal situation. (What would make you happy? What does your current situation look like?)

Write down your answer to the following question: What daily rituals will help you get where you want to be? (Think about it. What are the small, daily steps you need to take to move forward?)

The bottom line is that each moment of your life determines the next. This moment is the bridge between the reality of where you are now and the vision of where you want to be.

Reality actually comes to you every second. The amazing thing is that you can change it. You just have to decide what you want to do with it. The greatest mistake of all is doing nothing just because at the moment you are capable of only a little. And, again, it's far more effective to take small steps in the right direction than it is to take a giant leap to stumble, fall, and never get up again. The path to what you most want in your life is made up of a thousand small steps that you take every day. Decide where you want to be, take the first step and don't stop. Only hard work and perseverance will help you achieve your goal.